Divorce, a Divine Intervention?
How Divorce Can Be a Path to Spiritual Self-Discovery
Divorce can leave you feeling adrift and uncertain. Yet, it also offers a unique opportunity to rediscover and reinvent yourself. The following is a brief introduction to the spiritual self-discovery path that can lead you to a life of newfound clarity, confidence, and calm enthusiasm for what lies ahead.
Reconnecting with yourself
At a certain stage post divorce, you will be ready to look within. Don’t force it, you’ll know when it’s time. When you do, you might deepen practices such as meditation, prayer, or mindfulness to help you find the stillpoint or a moment of quiet within.
It’s not easy amidst the emotional roller coaster and upheaval of your life, especially if you’re now navigating being a single mom. But it’s paramount if you’re reaching for the clarity and confidence to move forward.
From the stillpoint, consider reconnecting with your core values, beliefs, and even passions that might have been overshadowed during your divorce. If you need help clarifying your values, here’s a free download.
To ease the sting of loss, you’ve probably doubled up on the self-care routine, too. But you might find that traditional self-care methods seem inadequate. The spa treatments and therapy sessions leave you needing something more.
As a spiritual advisor working with accomplished individuals, I delve deep into the essence of who you are, addressing the single, soul-level wound that traditional methods overlook — because they don’t understand where your Soul Wound resides or what it’s purpose is.
Divorce can crack your heart open, revealing your Soul Wound.
This specific-to-you wound, buried deep within your heart, has been the secret cause of anxiety, uncertainty, and disappointment throughout your life. Your soul wound is the great paradox. It’s necessary to your self-realization but it’s also responsible for sabotaging your peace and happiness.
Like a grain of sand that gets lodged in the tender inner folds of an oyster, for years your soul wound causes agitation and pain. And for years, you endure it. But divorce was the breaking point. Now it’s time to realize that unwanted piece of dirt is really a brilliant pearl.
When you discover your Soul Wound, you also discover the divine pearl of wisdom that will set you free.
A failure to understand your specific Soul Wound is the reason all your personal development, therapeutic, and spiritual pursuits have left you needing more. It’s also the reason why I’ve devoted my life to being a spiritual teacher, coach, and confidant to discerning women who want to love again.
What’s the purpose of it all?
Well I can tell you for certain it’s not so you can suffer and be unhappy. But finding meaning in the break up is a deeply personal experience that only you can do. You don’t have to do it alone, and in fact, it might be beneficial to be a part of a community that is actively redefining their life’s purpose, which can be particularly healing and motivating during the transition period.
Spiritual exploration post divorce can reveal your strength and resilience, helping you to view your experience as an opportunity for growth. In my work with women over the last 20 years, I’ve seen tremendous transformations.
One of my clients had a good job and a nice place to live but secretly struggled to put food on the table for her son and was battling the shame until she reached out for coaching. After “diagnosing” her soul wound she felt a sense of empowerment she never let herself feel before.
We addressed the source of her shame, which was not what she had been “working on in therapy” but a soul-level self-denial. While therapy can be a bridge, it tends to focus on external circumstances, your feelings about them, and behaviors toward them.
In my work, we turn all the attention inward. Because you can do all the work to manage your emotions and modify your behaviors but if you don’t know the Self, your divinity, that is “underneath it all” you will never feel whole.
In time, my client was able to say exactly what she wanted (rather than settling for what she thought she deserved) and when she got the job offer that hit every single checkbox, she almost couldn’t believe the new level of confidence she felt. She then bought the house she was renting, and fulfilled another dream of taking her son to live abroad during the summer.
She determined the purpose of her divorce and the struggles that followed were so that she could create a new identity that reflects her true self, independent of her past, and live a more authentic and fulfilling life.
How can I help you?
Because I take an unconventional approach my clients are introduced to a spiritual framework they have never considered. This advanced form of coaching presents possibilities beyond the limits of conventional thinking and problem solving. You can expect to experience a mystical awakening that will allow you to reimagine and restructure your life from a higher perspective.
Imagine having confidence that is independent of your circumstances.
How would your day be different if you woke up with calm enthusiasm?
What would you give to gain the kind of contentment that money can’t buy?
If you’re like my well-traveled clients who found themselves stranded in the murky waters post divorce, you require a unique type of guidance. Mainstream methods are too limited and formulaic. They may provide you with temporary relief from the anxiety and grief, but unless you arrive at deep soul level clarity, confidence, and contentment, you cannot be free and move forward.
Finding inner peace through spiritual self-discovery is the way out of the funk. This exploration will reveal how resilient you are, the confidence you’ve been wanting will emerge and you will understand the meaning of it all when you turn toward YOURSELF.
For More Support
If you would like to learn more about The Intimate Way, a sacred path to become soul-centered so you can reimagine and restructure your life, check out https://colettedavenport.com/ .
